subsided passions around early development.Those who were clearly against him, no longer insist on this.And those who are fanatically involved with the child according to the procedures of the early development of intelligence, calm down and slow down the pace.
All because the fashion for early development took place, and talk about its dangers infest psychologists more often.Say, is not ready for our society geeks and precocious kid, going to school, he faces many challenges: boredom in class, difficulties with adaptation and difficult communication with peers.So what to do?Really stop child to develop at all?Of course not.It is important to remember the main rule: first, the early development can not be put above everything else - motor development, emotional.
Second , any technique is correct for your child, focusing on his desire, opportunity and the pace of intellectual development of the young child.Do not forget that your baby more than anything else parents need love.And only after - the alp
Massage - a head
What's there to do with the development of intelligence, you ask.And you will be wrong!Communication is, and the most direct.The development of intelligence in the early years of a child's life is directly related to the movement.Judge for yourself, your baby skin - the largest and most sensitive organ of perception of the world.It was later joined by her sight, hearing, smell, the final formation of which occurs after birth.In the meantime, the skin takes on the role of the main "teacher" - the nerve endings in the information it received and passed on - to the brain. The more touches feel the crumb, the more will develop his intellect. Another interesting fact: often massaging fingers handlesand legs baby, we actively influence his speech center. As surprising as it may sound, it is the development of fine motor skills is responsible for how fast, well and good to speak with you your baby.
main complaintpsychologists, adherents to the early development is that in the race for the intellectual achievements of the child, the parents turn it into a walking encyclopedia, train baby memory memorizing simple, develop logical thinking, but completely forget about emotions. It turns out that the child is easily multiplies inmind two-digit numbers, but ... does not know how to empathize with others, for example. His emotional IQ is extremely low.
So kiddies in the future becomes very hard to communicate with their peers, make and maintain friendly relations.This is because they simply do not know how to make friends, not behave like little adults, but as ordinary children.To avoid this, it is necessary from a very early age, and to pay attention to the development of emotions.And this is done by example.Do you feel sad?Explain crumbs, why are you sad.And do not think that he does not understand.He can not understand all the details, but this information must be postponed in reserve and will emerge in the memory at the right time.When the child is older, you can play with him in the "Masks": Close face palms and dropping them alternately show it to the kid different emotions (joy, sadness, surprise, dissatisfaction, fear, etc.). The child will certainly be delighted withYour grimacing, and their participation in such fun. The game in the "mask" should definitely be accompanied by explanations and repeat each phrase several times, alternately: "Look, my mother is happy (sad, etc.)". In other words, it is not necessaryhope that the child will grow up and he "turns" in the emotional communication, it should teach it as everything else - to crawl, walk, read, play ...
What is this shaped as letters?
First of all, you need to learn what abstract thinking (and thanks to him we understand what we read) develops much later - by the age of four.And even if you train crumb stands out the letter A in the word watermelon, for him, these two concepts are not related: is the letter A and eating watermelon, which, according to my mother are together in some kind of "related" links. Andall! We must take this into account and understand that teaching a child to read from the cradle, you only train his visual memory. For this reason, it is difficult to put the baby in the letter syllables. By the way, thanks to this understanding, all the methods of teaching early reading are divided into 3 types: by letter, syllable by syllable (method Zaitsev), whole words (Glenn Doman method). And no matter what you choose, if there is such a desire, remember that letter, syllable or word for a child - all only a graphic element, the symbolhe can remember after repeated insistent repetition. And whether or not to apply such an effort to ensure that older age your child will master a couple of weeks - easily and naturally? It should! But just saying to myself, "I do not teach a child to read, Iacquaint him with letters (numbers). "Think of it as a part of the big world, you are familiar with the crumbs.Here kitty, here's the dog, but the letter A.
And note that cat and dog baby is much clearer than the letters and numbers, because living things jump training, meow or a crow, eat, run away from danger and interact with each other.They are interesting and understandable.What, then, with numbers and letters?Treat it as a preparatory stage for reading.Hang the rooms images of letters (syllables, words) and digits - in large print, red and white.The child will remember them as part of his world, and knowledge itself will go into a passive reserve.And when the baby will learn to read at a later age, he will be ready for the perception of letters and numbers, as he is already familiar with them.
To do this, we use the idea to do for Cecil Lupan baby themed encyclopedia.It does not require special skills, cost and time.For its creation, we only need to arm themselves with old magazines unnecessary photographs and books.And the benefit is invaluable!Indeed, the city where our kiddies to see goats or cows, planes and cruisers.Here also need such an encyclopedia.They can be done on any topic, "Animals", "weather", "Flowers", "Engineering", "Capital of the World", etc. Under each picture, it is desirable to make the signature in capital letters. Try to choose illustrations, which will be a single object,that is, if you show a crumb fox, then the photo or illustration should be only she - the largest and unique. There is no photo, and you used the picture of the old children's books? Note that the characters where the animals are shown in clothing or painted in atypicalfor the real nature of the positions, we do not fit. The same applies to plants "persons" and "animated" cartoon car, etc. For thematic encyclopedia need as close to the life of the image. To encyclopedia will serve you as long as possible, okleytepage wide transparent tape or do not in the usual encyclopedia album or a school notebook, and individual pictures, each of which Laminate.
What distinguishes creating a breeding ground for the intellectual development of the young child from targeted training with crumbs according to the procedure?In fact, the environment - that's what the kid lives, teaching moments do not stand out from the usual picture of the life of the child, and woven into the daily rituals - walking, feeding and even bathing.The only thing that is required from the mother - not to be silent.It comes easily mash-active mums and sometimes causes problems in silent introvertok.But here, nature comes to the rescue.With the birth of the baby she is changing under the influence of maternal instinct.Scientists have noticed that young mothers change even voice - becomes higher, softer, and themselves intonation of speech - more malleable, gentle.Hormones do their good work, and women just do not need to resist, and be ashamed.
Remember : Now your main enemy - silence.And this is confirmed by scientific evidence.At the time, scientists conducted an experiment in two groups of infants children.In one group of mothers behaved naturally: petted and nursed their babies, singing lullabies, tenderness whispering in your ear.And another - mothers task was simply to perform the manipulation of childcare: children fed silently, change clothes, bedding.As a result of this totally inhumane study found that babies of "silent" group became more moody and anxious, they are more often sick, and eventually began to give her more happy "colleagues" from the first group in terms of physical and intellectual development.They later began to speak, later went.
Of course, we do not encourage you to "rattle" nonstop, every minute of the waking crumbs using that information to stuff it. Just know that even when you sing a lullaby to a child - he develops when walking, talks about the trees andmachines - it develops when breastfeed - it also makes a positive contribution to the mental development of the baby.
Be natural and listen closely to what they want and what your child is ready. Just always done a little bit withahead. Your kid interested in the car, standing near your home? Then it's time to start studying home encyclopedia on "Transport", and at the same time explore the colors, because all of these machines - are so different!
Learn to love your classes and be sure to bring the expected benefits!