As you know, in our country in the first grade take children from the age of six.But before you send in a Six-Year School, beware: if your baby is ready to change the carefree everyday stiff school discipline?And whether you are acting in the interests of the child or just want to amuse their parents' ambitions?Even the ability to read, write and count is absolutely nothing.Experts insist that the main sign of readiness - a burning desire for the child as soon as possible to fasten a new backpack to proudly walk with him for knowledge: Look, I'm really an adult!Therefore, the main task of parents - not to miss the moment and in the future do everything possible to make this desire has not disappeared anywhere."It is important that the child was interested to learn something new.For example, in our school pays great attention to the disclosure of the children on the nature of the mortgaged building, learn to understand the world holistically and be an independent person.The lesson is buil
addition conscious desire to go to school, the second important component of successful learning is the presence of the correct relationship with the teacher.After all, from the first teacher it depends on how successful is psychological adaptation newly first-graders to unfamiliar surroundings.In the spring, most schools organize open days where you can not only learn about the features of the training program, which is used in the institution, but also to communicate with the primary school teachers.They say the ideal situation is when a teacher applies to the first graders the same approach as that of the parents if the child is accustomed to the rigor, he would be comfortable with a demanding teacher, but if the house reigns a soft atmosphere, mentor should look close to him in spirit.The child will be much easier if you give him a chance before the start of the school year to learn more about the rules of school life and meet future classmates.In adapting the familiar environment, usually runs smoothly and safely.Activities in which children can get comfortable in his new environment, carried out by psychologists.Here it believes that successful training is important to first identify opportunities for the child."Our challenge is to develop the child's ability, but it is necessary to determine at what level it is.This can be done by means of tests and psychological diagnosis. "To help the child and the parents are discussing with him his future school life and properly organizing the new schedule, which has a place of rest and active games outdoors.In addition to the main - internal motivation - to the beginning of the first school year, a child must have many more skills: the ability to focus, the ability to perform the work is not very attractive, and to subordinate their behavior established in the School of Law.
Games under the new rules
At the age of 6-7 years to get used to the new environment is not as easy as it might seem at first glance.After the start of the school year to change the whole rhythm of the usual life.If the kindergarten classes alternated with short games, the school needs to learn to sit still as much as 35 minutes, until the tingle long awaited call.You do not stare out the window, and listen carefully to what the teacher says.So far, these challenges do not have to tackle child, so compliance with school rules require a maximum voltage of all internal resources.Parents should remember that a child is able to focus only 10-15 minutes, so during the first homework through this period of time is necessary to give the baby to move.Another problem that can arise at the newly first-graders - the difficulty in mastering the material.In public schools, the average number of children in classes - 25 people, and explain to everyone understood example no."If a child is something I do not understand, he loses interest in the subject and less developed.Why children are very often unsuccessful in secondary schools, of which only 7% study in the four and five?Because incomprehensible topic inhibits the development of a child - he is lazy and does not want to go to school. "Make sure that the child knew everything about what was told in the classroom, you can use the practice, which is used in a Montessori school."Every child after the lesson fills blog where describes in detail that during this time to learn, understand, see and do.For his work he puts himself points if the teacher agrees with the assessment that puts the signature.At the end of a quarter scores are summed and then the children choose their prizes in store for the given number of points. "
On the effect on self-esteem assessment
In most schools in primary school assessment canceled, so as not to injure the already frightened child.The fact that the first class, according to psychologists - an important period for the development of self-esteem, and any careless word can permanently settle in the soul of the little man the uncertainty in their own abilities.Therefore, parents should postpone their claims about the success of the young student to better times - accusations will have only negative consequences.No need to compare and failures of the child with the success of his classmates - this will inevitably lead to the formation of uncertainty in their own abilities.Where useful, meeting a child after school, just be happy with it either, even if at first glance inconspicuous personal victory.Do not skimp on the praise - for the first-grader there is nothing more important than words of support."The atmosphere of love and understanding, trust and friendship - the main key to success.If a child has the opportunity to open up and enjoy the activities in the school, it all comes easy. "So the more positive thoughts about the school will give parents of first-graders, the easier it will be an adaptation of the child.And then instead of the usual "I do not want to learn!" Can be heard, "Hooray!Back to school! "